Blogger: Mary Keeley
Location: Books & Such Midwest Office, Illinois
As we concentrate on positive outlooks, this week, let’s tackle our persistence barometer. Some people just seem to have a sunny disposition no matter what life throws at them. For the rest of us, especially those with a melancholy temperament, it can require a lot of effort. We have the assurance: Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see (Hebrews 11:1). But acting on it takes persistence.
You can employ some practical exercises to help check yourself when you encounter discouragement over a rejection letter or your book’s low sales numbers. First, appropriate the Boy Scout motto: Be prepared.
- You have been waiting . . . forever . . . for a reply from an agent or editor. Being ready with a little self-talk to recall all the positive evaluations from your critique partners might be enough to balance negative news and counter the impending gloom.
- Be prepared to have a positive perspective. Don’t assume the only reason you haven’t received a response from an agent or editor is because your proposal was quickly dismissed. It could be that she is giving it a thorough review with the intent of offering constructive feedback. There are a number of those proposals on my desk right now.
It is realistic to expect you’ll have disappointments. In her book Bird by Bird, veteran author Anne Lamott describes an experience with her editor, who rejected one of Anne’s manuscripts three times. But Anne persisted in taking his feedback and returning to him with revisions until he finally accepted it.
If you receive a rejection from an editor without any comments, it is okay to request feedback. I know some editors don’t initially offer their reaction because they feel their opinion is subjective and another editor might love your manuscript. And editors can’t give feedback on every rejected project; they’d never accomplish everything else on their massive to-do lists; so graciously accept an “I can’t” response.
If you do receive feedback, look at it as constructive criticism not as a critical review. It is also possible that the rejection has nothing to do with the quality of your work, but only that the publishing house already had contracted a book similar to yours.
A persistent faith plus persistent improving of your craft will yield a positive outlook that your dreams of being a successful author will become reality. I have a Post-It note on my computer monitor that’s a definition of dreams Cynthia Herron wrote in a comment to a recent blog: “Dreams (are) something beyond the scope of the tangible but completely possible with the One who moves mountains.”
What do you do to stay positive about your writing and your publishing dreams?
I truly needed to read this today! I received my first rejection letter last Friday, but it was filled with feedback. I had given up on hearing anything, but based on the contents of the letter, I can see that they did peruse my manuscript. It simply doesn’t fit what that particular publishing house is looking for at this time. Sometimes it’s difficult to keep that sunny outlook, but God is in control, not me, thank goodness!
What helps me stay positive while waiting is focusing on the one thing I can control, my writing. I get to sit here for hours most days and do what I love. No matter what happens once a manuscript goes out into the world, hopeful for acceptance, I can still be here writing another one, loving what I get to do.
It only took me ten years of writing then five years of frustrating chemo fog to figure out where I need to keep my focus. Slow learner = me.
I continue to believe in divine appointments. Nothing is happenstance. No moment in time is not God-orchestrated. He has it all under control even when we feel like our world is in the spin cycle.
What do I do to stay encouraged? Read God’s Word, remain focused, and commit to doing at least one thing daily to bless others!
Thanks so much for the mention, dear Mary.
Glad to fill your encouragement tank today, Regina. Don’t we all need a perspective refreshment occasionally.
Lori, good to hear the chemo fog is behind you. We look forward to hearing what is in store for you with your renewed focus.
Rock solid advice, Cynthia.