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The Never-Always Myth

April 21, 2024 //  by Cynthia Ruchti//  12 Comments

Among the myths writers often entertain is Never-Always. You may have it embroidered on the fabric of your mind regarding your writing projects or career:

writing mythsNo means never.

Yes means forever.

Be encouraged today. Those are myths, as are other commonly held but faulty premises.

Let’s expose them one at a time.

Never-Always Myth

 

If I write a solid, well-told story but have no platform, my work is doomed, right? Or, if I write a great story and have a strong platform, my work is guaranteed to be picked up by a traditional publisher, right?

myth of writingBoth are myths. Curious things happen in the writing world. No human can predict that this will always happen if… or this will never happen if…

It’s one of the reasons agents exist–to help you navigate all the wonders and wonderings. Never-always depends heavily on expectations and suppositions. Taming expectations is a meaningful exercise for a wise writer. It also helps the writer maintain an air of utter delight when things work out well.

No-Means-Never Myth

 

Agents love to collect stories as much as an avid reader does. The successes thrill us, as they do the writer. But even more noteworthy are the successes that start out looking like failures. A writer’s project has lain dormant for years. Then the agent receives a call or email from an editor–“Is that project still available?” Time to pull out the salsa (either the dipping kind or the dancing kind). A writer receives rejection after rejection, then tries a new project or genre or tense or hook with what looks like instant success built on years of practice and adjustment.

No-means-never is a myth.

Yes-Means-Forever Myth

 

Just as untrue is the assumption that if the author has a book published, they’ll never have to work that hard to get a contract again. Or that having a book reach a bestseller list is a sure path to Easy Street. Bestselling authors are often chased by the pressure to produce another bestseller, and another. A contract doesn’t equal the guarantee of a second contract, or a tenth.

Reaching a platform milestone in social media or having one viral post doesn’t not mean the author no long needs to concern himself or herself with platform (built-in audience). That pool of potential readers need attention and care. And if the pool remains the same size after contract, after the book releases, it’s a signal to agents and editors that something (or someone) is off-kilter. An author’s newsletter mailing list, for instance, should reflect ongoing upward growth.

Receiving a yes from a publishing house is not permission to “phone in” the next book or the thirtieth. Yes does not mean forever. Yes means, “Here we go. Roll up your sleeves for the duration of your career.”

Self-Publishing-is-a-Great-Foot-in-the-Door Myth

 

Is self-publishing or independent publishing the right path for some authors? Yes. For a variety of reasons, self-publishing may well be the correct route. But if we maintain the assumption that self-publishing is a foot in the door for traditional publishing, we’re buying into a myth that will disappoint us. Most (not all) self-publishing efforts for debut authors sell modestly.

Unless they sell strongly (not more copies than your friends, or even the most copies from that hybrid publishing house) in the thousands of copies, and unless the book is aligned with your overarching publishing goals and your strengths as a writer, a self-published book may actually create a hurdle rather than a foot in the door. And who needs more hurdles?

self publishing mythThe editor considering a proposal from that author asks, “Did the author simply want a book published, or was this a strategic move, and a good one? How many copies sold? That will reflect how many potential readers the author can bring to the table for this next project. Does this project truly reflect who the writer is for their overarching career? How could the author not know that editors investigate what else an author has done, produced, tried?”

Self-publishing can be a good move for speakers who sell lots of copies at events and need product quickly. But it’s a myth that it will serve as a foot-in-the-door for traditional publishing. If it does, it’s an exception rather than the rule.

I’m-An-Exception Myth

 

“I’ve heard all the advice from editors and agents,” a writer says, “but I believe I’m an exception. I’m counting on it.”

“Eight different people have told me I should change genres because my unique author voice is out of character for this category, but I believe I’m the exception.”

myth of family saga“I realize it’s not common, well, rare for an author like me to get a contract when I don’t own a computer and choose to write my 400,000 word epic family sagas in a 17-part series about my own family, longhand, on paper I made from mulberry bushes, but why can’t I be the exception?”

Because if you think you are, you likely aren’t. Exceptions, phenomena, wild journeys are called that because they happen so seldom. To a person, those who set out to be a phenom failed at it. Or lost their relationships or their soul in the process. If you are an exception, let others determine that, then be (in the words of earlier in this post) delightfully surprised if it happens. Don’t fall for the myth that you can, deserve to, or can orchestrate becoming an exception.

There’s-No-Hope Myth

 

Survey 100 authors and you’ll find a good number who believed there was no hope for their project or that they could choose writing as a career. They proved the no-hope idea a myth. They may have needed more time, more experience, a greater understanding of the industry, connections with the right people, a bunch more prayer, or a lovely serendipitous moment when what they wrote aligned with reader needs.

Authors cling to hope. It’s what we do. And it’s no myth.

 

 

 

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  1. Jenny

    April 22, 2024 at 3:00 am

    Great post, thank you for sharing these reminders with us!

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    • Cynthia Ruchti

      April 22, 2024 at 7:42 am

      Thanks, Jenny! I value your feedback!

      Reply
  2. Andrew Budek-Schmeisser

    April 22, 2024 at 4:53 am

    I count the digits on may watch
    as time’s soft pure sand runs,
    and pour myself another scotch,
    for tomorrow never comes.
    I see my grand career float by
    through bottom of a glass,
    and think perhaps that I should try
    to take a writing class, but I’m so good at poetry,
    a novel is child’s play,
    and that which I might learn would be
    something in my way
    to steal excuse for getting tight
    thinking ’bout what I’ll never write.

    Reply
    • Cynthia Ruchti

      April 22, 2024 at 7:43 am

      Interesting! You’ve been writing your book in blog posts for years! πŸ™‚

      Reply
  3. Laquita

    April 22, 2024 at 7:02 am

    So encouraging!

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    • Cynthia Ruchti

      April 22, 2024 at 7:43 am

      So glad it helped!

      Reply
  4. Dawn Wallis

    April 22, 2024 at 9:10 am

    I so needed this today! I have two books currently looking for homes with publishers and keep getting “no’s.” This post is the encouragement I needed to keep hoping and continuing to write, write, and write amidst discouragement and doubt. I appreciate your perspective, wisdom, and thoughtfulness to share. Thank you.

    Reply
    • Cynthia Ruchti

      April 22, 2024 at 9:15 am

      I love it when the timing of a blog post hits the spot. πŸ™‚

      Reply
  5. Leslie Bosserman

    April 22, 2024 at 6:53 pm

    Such a great overview of many things to consider as a yet-to-be-published author!!

    And this might be my favorite Cynthia quote (so far)…

    β€œTime to pull out the salsa (either the dipping kind or the dancing kind).”

    Reply
  6. Kristen Joy Wilks

    April 23, 2024 at 7:37 am

    Thank you so much, Cynthia! I am ever amazed at how the Books & Such ladies are able to come up with fresh content after so many years of blogging. I’ve read from the very first blog post (although I didn’t dare to comment for several years) and somehow I am surprised with something heartfelt and new so often. Yes, these never/always emotional roller coaster moments have happened to me. Well, not the always ones, not yet. But I see your wise counsel. Slow and steady wins the day. I’ve prayed through the valley last year, seriously considering if it was time to stop writing fiction after over twenty years of struggle and the answer, “Don’t stop.” I received a bunch of rejections right after that, “Don’t stop.” My conclusion, for whatever reason, the Lord knows the joy I find in storytelling and wishes me onward. This journey may not produce an agent and a contract, but if I persist it will produce stories and that is the important bit for now. Thank you for your thoughtful words and an important reminder. Plus, my sixteen-year-old has asked me “Don’t get famous for your writing, Mom” until after he finishes college as he should receive a hefty need-based scholarship unless my writing suddenly becomes lucrative. I told him that the risk was very low but that I would try my best, ha!

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    • Cynthia Ruchti

      April 23, 2024 at 7:41 am

      This is one of the best responses to a blog post! Thoughtful, meaningful, encouraging…and left me laughing!

      Reply
      • Kristen Joy Wilks

        April 24, 2024 at 11:39 am

        This writing journey produces a lot of crying and laughing doesn’t it. But I think laughing is the best! My sons leave me laughing so often. Plus, what a compliment that he considered my fame such a risk that he felt the need to warn me against it, ha!

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