Blogger: Wendy Lawton
Location: Home for the Holidays
This week our Books & Such team will be showcasing an up-close-and-personal tour of our homes at Christmastime. This is a perfect topic for me because I love decorating for advent and Christmas. Keith and I were married on the seventh day of Christmas thirty-nine years ago and I was born on the sixth day of Christmas, so the Christmas season is a magical one for us. And, of course, Jesus was born on the first day of Christmas– the most important day of all.
So we make the season as special as we can. The day after Thanksgiving, instead of shopping the Black Friday sales, we decorate our house for Christmas. Our very first Christmas ornaments were the two doves from our wedding cake. Every year after that we bought a special ornament for each person in the family and wrote the date on it. Each year as we trim the tree, it is a day filled with memories– some fun, some poignant.
We have two trees— one in the entryway to greet visitors with lots of bling and sparkle. The presents under this tree are for others. The second tree is our family tree, the one filled with meaningful ornaments. It has our old candle-like lights and almost forty years of memories. The gifts under this tree are for family members.
We have a magnolia garland over the fireplace to go along with the magnolia blossoms tucked into the branches of our Christmas tree. The filet crochet Lord’s Prayer hanging above the fireplace was crocheted for us more than thirty-five years ago by an elderly woman in our church. It’s hung in our house ever since.
Being longtime doll and toy collectors, we always incorporate dolls and toys into our Christmas decor, including our Victorian skin horse. (Remember the wise old skin horse from the story of The Velveteen Rabbit? I often think this very horse could be that wise old toy.) He lives atop our piano because he is irresistible to little children and, being about 150 years old, he’s not up to many more gallops.
Our Saint Nicholas, dressed in winter white velvet and gilt, is another old friend who shows up at Christmastime. He’s a far cry from the modern day “jolly old elf,” but I love his gentle face. We always pick one or two of my own doll creations to feature at Christmas. These are two of my dimunitive nine-inch tall favorites. I sculpted the porcelain faces and hands and we put them on hand-carved wooden spring-jointed bodies so that they can hold any pose a human can. (Well, almost.) The one on the left is Beatrice Louise and on the right is Just Jenny.
But the centerpiece of our Christmas decor– just like the center of our Christmas celebration– is Jesus, whose birth is at the heart of the season. Our nativity is kept at child-eye-level and we encourage our little visitors to explore it as we tell them about the miracle. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)
Love it! Okay, I didn’t read much of your post, just looked at the pictures. I really like the candle lights and the ornate piano. I’ve got part of that nativity set, too. Beautiful set up!
The Lord’s Prayer hanging above your fire place is exquisite! And the story behind it warms my heart. Thank you for sharing your home with us, Wendy.
A home every bit as warm and lovely as its owner. Many wonderful Christmas wishes to you and Keith and the rest of the Lawton family!
I love that your decorations are so meaningful to you. They didn’t just come off the department store shelf.
How nice to have a peek inside your home during this special season! Everything is beautiful but still inviting.
Some of my fondest Christmas memories are of spending hours reenacting the story with our Nativity set. Now our family has 3 Nativity sets and we keep them on the fireplace hearth. They’re pretty battered from the kids playing with them, but that’s part of what makes them special to me.
Merry Christmas!
One year I had suffered with depression and as Thanksgiving approached I worried about ruining Christmas for everyone with my melancholy spirit. The counselor I was seeing suggested I only do those things that brought me joy, only those activities that I wanted to do and pass over any thing that made me feel pressured. I took her advice to heart–and found that all the traditions meant so much to me. The music, the lights, the baking, but especially the decorating. Every room was decorated with joy because I wanted to. My heart responded to the meaningful treasures that live in boxes most of the year. Through the decorating process, healing steps turned into leaps and my recovery never relapsed.
Barbara, what wise advice. Thank you so much for sharing it. I just know your experience will bless someone else this Christmas.
I love your style, as you know, and think everything you do in your house is beautiful. And I have that exact Nativity set, which I love so much.
Thanks for sharing the meanings and personal sentiments behind your decor for Christmas. Love that.